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这个人竟是萧十一郎
当我们面对嫉妒者的中伤时,最容易做出的也是最下策的反应就是反唇相讥。可是这样,我们会因为别人的无聊而使自己也变得无聊,甚至有可能陷入一场旷日持久、使心智疲惫又毫无意义的纠葛中。有这么一句禅语:“别人想给你一种东西,你不接受,那么这个东西还是那个人的。”英国诗人拜伦曾说过这么一句很有意思的话:“爱我的我报以叹息,恨我的我置之一笑。”佛与拜伦都是如此洒脱,如此豁达。对嫉妒者的中伤,最妙的回答是--不理会它,让心灵安详地微笑。
“啊,是的,他不是这样的人,可是……”
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